Are you ready to let go of what's not yours, so you can live the life you're meant to?
What are family constellations?
Family Constellations are the quickest and most effective way to discover and disrupt subconscious loyalties to physical, emotional and spiritual dis-ease that's been carried unconsciously for generations.
"Children seldom or never dare to live a happier or more fulfilling life than their parents..
Unconsciously, they remain loyal to unspoken family traditions that work invisibly. Family Constellations are a way of discovering underlying family bonds and forces that have been carried unconsciously over several generations.”
- Bertold Ulsamer
is a family constellation for me?
Because of the nature of this work, we may be the first to say that Family Constellation workshops are admittedly not for everyone.
Family Constellations are truly an experience.
An experience that words could not do justice, and an experience that is truly sacred.
Before reading on, let us state a small disclaimer so you know if this path is right for you:
Experiencing and participating in Family Constellation workshops require a level of Spiritual Belief.
The many miracles that take place inside a family constellation workshop are what many cultures, especially in our Western world, have been indoctrinated to believe as "impossible".
For this reason, we are very particular in who we invite to work with us in our workshops.
And so with loving boundaries, we are guided to admit:
If you are in any way skeptical, close minded or fearful of spiritual practices and miracles, this may not be right for you.
If, however, you're open minded spiritually, and ready to heal beyond the veil, our constellation community may be for you.
Are you held back by:
No matter how much journaling, meditation, and inner work you do, you always seem to fall back into the same sabotage patterns?
It feels like you're constantly experiencing conflicts and turmoil in your personal, professional and romantic relationships?
There always seems to be Financial Friction - whether it's constantly spending beyond your limits or hoarding and unable to enjoy it?
Right when you get close to achieving a goal, you somehow manage to lose passion, lose momentum, and fail to achieve it?
You have relentless chronic pain, anxiety, or illness that has been unresolved, no matter HOW many modalities you've sought out?
Can't hold a grip on your mood - You're easily triggered, and then feel guilty or ashamed for the thoughts, emotions and resentments you experience toward others?
Weak boundaries - You say YES to everything and everyone except yourself. It's difficult saying no, and always results in spreading yourself too thin?
These are the most common symptoms that are resolved in Family Constellations
"Just as we inherit our eye colour and blood type, we also inherit the residue from traumatic events that have taken place in our family.
While our physical traits are easily discernible, this emotional legacy is often hidden from us. Anxiety, fear, financial worries, depression, illness and unhappy relationships can all be forms of our unconscious inheritance.
- Mark Wolynn
how do family constellations work?
You realize that's a loaded question, right?
It's almost as complex as asking how bluetooth works.
Here's our best explanation:
There are 3 steps to a constellation
Through muscle testing, we uncover the "root cause" of the disharmony or dis-ease - often a memory or traumatic event - as well as the family members involved in the picture.
Once it's been Revealed, we are now able to disrupt and reprogram the generational pattern that we've been subconsciously loyal to.
These are often beliefs, commitments and paradigms that have been running in the background of our Subconscious Mind.
-Please read below to get a greater understanding of the actual process-
Now that the "software" that's been running in the back of your subconscious has been reprogrammed, you're almost like a computer being Restored to it's original settings.
Think of it like completely erasing your computer of the viruses.
what the process looks like
In a group constellation session, one person is selected to have a physical, emotional or spiritual disharmony resolved in their life.
Once we Reveal the emotional anchor (memory, experience, belief, etc) that's been causing the disruption, as well as the family members associated (from this or previous generations), the other participants within the group then become "representatives" for the family members who are involved in the picture.
This happens completely intuitively. Each participant will naturally feel drawn to a specific role.
Upon settling into their roles, the constellation participants soon start to think, feel, and act as if they were the person they are representing. This is also known as Channeling, and as a side effect of participating in constellations, you will become much more connected to your intuition.
Kelsey and Vanessa then begin to observe the behaviour and dynamics between each participant in the role they're playing.
Using their expertise in Access Consciousness, Emotional Polarity Technique, Light Language, and other forms of energetic healing, they then work together with the participants to re-establish energetic and emotional harmony within the family members.
Conversations often emerge between participants which are deeply healing and empowering, not only for the observer whom is receiving the constellation, but also for the people who are playing the roles.
Within this work, we have noticed that the roles people are guided to play are often roles they need healing with in our own lives.
Once the family dynamic is brought back to energetic homeostasis, the effects are tangible in your own life, as well as between real life family members who weren't even aware of the constellation taking place.
This is where "miracles" happen, and the generational healing anchors in.
This is where your soul becomes Restored, and no longer limited by the generational loyalty that's been subconsciously directing aspects of your life and health.